THIS ARTICLE IS NOT A SOUND BYTE MORE A RAW ACCOUNT OF HOW IT HAS BEEN AND HOW THINGS COULD BE !
AS YOKO SAYS WAR IS OVER IF ‘WE WANT IT TO BE’
SETTLE IN WEEP FOR WHAT WE ‘VE LOST & HEAR US ROAR WITH JOY AS WE ALLOW LOVE AND EQUITY TO COME WHISPER OUR NAMES
PART 1 OF 2
GOOD LEADERSHIP RESPONSE NOT REACTION
Now is OUR time to re evaluate realign, what we mean by love genuine leadership and respectful relationship. It is TIME to re examine refocus and recognise the experiences and felt sense of the other.It is right now we need to communicate, respect and accept the lived experience of each other in the Third Decade of the Women’s Century.
CONSIDERATION AND GENUINE BEST INTENTIONS
The Third Decade of the Women’s Century, is OUR time to acknowledge and embrace our intrinsic humanity to offer and share mutual respect love kindness genuine dialogue. As we say at Vita, caring communicating with considered intentions, creates clarity, dialogue and compassion for all.
A CLIMATE OF SANCTIONED ABUSE VS GENUINE CONSENT
We are now bearing witness to the extraordinaryly disturbing toxic misogynistic climate’ in Australia ‘s Federal Parliament. The truth that lives in ‘plain sight for all to see’..
The so called “halls of power'” including Ministers Offices of Parliament could well be seen as crime scenes, by some accounts and on closer scrutiny.. Don’t ask don’t tell’
CONDITIONAL RELATIONSHIP THE BLAME GAME
The grubby behaviour ‘of mysoginy is NOW in ‘full view” for ALL the world to see. Man made language muddies the water consent is a REAL thing ” ‘She asked for it’ she made me do it” are often times used as convenient truth that suits those attached to ‘conditional relationship based on blame and ‘who’s fault was it or as some say “who owns the problem’
The link below is really intense content and you seriously will feel the need to do a weights work out after reading the content on the link below! Well Worth considering reading the content on the link below it is seriously gob smacking content that has shaped ‘conscious bias! It will take a while to read, so be committed to settle in for the long haul .. Be the change we wish to see and BE
Examine what beliefs have stayed in play that steals a woman’s agency The legal system is so last century, so NOT a helpful set of assumptions. Entirely constructed realities that lays bare patriarchal ENTITLEMENT!
GENUINE CONSENT MATTERS
People are beginning to get that NO MEANS NO ‘she made me do it’ does not cut the mustard. The intergenerational trauma of such things is an open wound, the world must heal together .Mutual consent is finally becoming validated ‘a real thing” that GENUINELY MATTERS.
REALIGN RE CLAIM OUR POWER RE EVALUATE CORE BELIEFS
It could be said patriarchal paradigms are the CORE problem, affecting the world as it is right now. It is opportune to suggest that patriarchy is CONSCIOUS BIAS! It could be said patriarchal paradigms are a key factor to the VAST in equities in the world and so NOT the ‘solution’ in fact never were the ‘solution.’
A WOMANS WORTH AND CONSCIOUS BIAS
In the article below research shows that women are selected by their ‘past performance and men are chosen by their potential’ when being considered for CEO positions. We understand entirely how this plays out as women in the world navigating conscious bias.
Patriarchal paradigms are the KEY culprit to why things are so slow to change and acknowledge the other as self . This is a fundamental fact we need to address, to realign equity in the world .
CHANGE THE BELIEF RECREATE THE FUTURE
It has been said by others and I will say it again, misogynist behaviour is pure violence and the under lying belief is DISRESPECT. A belief system that tries to ‘keep women in their place .’diminishes a woman’s agency and her voice. METOO
BELIEF SYSTEMS THE ‘MYSOGNIST BUBBLES
Be very clear patriarchy, as a belief system is the issue Patriarchy, and mysoginy are learnt behaviours not gender specific. Patriarchy has enabled mysoginy, to be acceptable way of treating women in a particular manner
We need to change the belief of entitlement that allows another to treat another with disrespect and take away their personal agency. We can see some are blinded BY their conscious bias and oblivious to their absolute unconscious thoughtless behaviour.
Don’t ask what the Women’s Century has done for one ask what one is doing for the Women’s Century now in our 3rd Decade .
Do it for Brittany do it for Grace and as we say at Vita do it for the NEXT GENERATION and YOUR MUM .. Speak up act from love not fear!